As God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience.
You can live 2019 with the peace of Christ in your heart. Always be compassionate. Always try to understand as much as you can. Never let the ends justify the means, that is, don't forsake your principles or good behavior to get your own way.
“In the way we regard our children, our spouses, neighbors, colleagues, and strangers, we choose to see others either as people like ourselves or as objects.They either count like we do or they don't. In the former case we regard them as we regard ourselves, we say our hearts are at peace toward them. In the latter case, since we systematically view them as inferior, we say our hearts are at war.”